Monthly Archives: February 2008

Cherokee Rite of Passage

Note: It has been brought to my attention that this story is not actually an authentic Cherokee rite of passage. It was not posted so as to be a factual representation of Cherokee culture, but I found it to be a cute story which gives a good example of fatherhood and of God our Father. I apologize to anyone I may have inadvertantly offended. Of note, I am Cherokee myself, so please do not think that I am disparaging Native Americans by any means.
WikiAnswer published one Cherokee member’s response to this e-mail forward.

This came from a co-worker (gotta love those e-mail forwards!):

Do you know the legend of the Cherokee Indian youth’s rite of passage? His father takes him into the forest, blindfolds him and leaves him alone.  He is required to sit on a stump the whole night and not remove the blindfold until the rays of the morning sun shine through it. He cannot cry out for help to anyone.  Once he survives the night, he is a MAN.  He cannot tell the other boys of this experience because each lad must come into manhood on his own.  The boy is naturally terrified.  He can hear all kinds of noises.  Wild beasts must surely be all around him.  Maybe even some human might do him harm.  The wind blew the grass and earth, and shook his stump, but he sat stoically, never removing the blindfold.  It would be the only way he could become a man!  Finally, after a horrific night, the sun appeared and he removed his blindfold.  It was then that he discovered his father sitting on the stump next to him.  He had been at watch the entire night, protecting his son from harm.

We, too, are never alone.  Even when we don’t know it, our Heavenly Father is watching over us, sitting on the stump beside us.  When trouble comes, all we have to do is reach out to Him.

Moral of the Story:  Just because you can’t see God, doesn’t mean He is not there.

“For we walk by faith, not by sight.”  — 2 Corinthians 5:7 [Not the full verse.]

I’m Sure This Violates ‘Theology of the Body’ in Some Way…

Okay, so I’m sick.  I want to drink my orange juice.  I cannot get the thing open.  Seriously.  I look around, and neither of my surgeons are available.

So….

 I walk across the hall — to the nearest, conveniently located boy — and shove my orange juice bottle at him and say, “Help!”

He grabs it and starts laughing at me as he opens it, without a problem.

His office-mate, Colleen, says, “See!  This is why we keep a guy around!”

I laugh and say, “Yeah, I knew Marines were good for something!”

(My apologies to any Marines who read my blog and are offended.   I am former Navy and Marty’s former Marine, so we tease each other all the time.)

I’m a What??


You Are a Comma


You are open minded and extremely optimistic.
You enjoy almost all facets of life. You can find the good in almost anything.You keep yourself busy with tons of friends, activities, and interests.
You find it hard to turn down an opportunity, even if you are pressed for time.

Your friends find you fascinating, charming, and easy to talk to.
(But with so many competing interests, you friends do feel like you hardly have time for them.)

You excel in: Inspiring people

You get along best with: The Question Mark

What Punctuation Mark Are You?

Crossing the Tiber

I was *really* early for Catechism last night, so I browsed through the parish library.  I ended up checking out Steve Ray’s “Crossing the Tiber.”  Now, I came from an atheist background, and didn’t do any sort of research before deciding to come into the church, so my story is completely different from his.  However, this book is amazing!  I didn’t get home until 8:30 pm last night, and I went to bed around 11:30 pm, and in between I had to do a load of laundry, wash some dishes, feed the cats, and have dinner, and I still managed to read half the book!!!  As an aside, he is the crazy footnoting man, but these are well worth the time; most of the “research” part of the book is in the footnotes, while the “story” part is in the main text.

For once, I may *actually* return a library book before it’s due date!  How amazing is that?!  (Yes, I keep libraries solvent via my late fees.  Some day, I’ll have to get back to Troy Public Library and pay that fine from the Harry Potter book I checked out about 2-3 years ago.  If they charge interest on the fine, I may have to fund that expansion they were talking about….  Not that I don’t mean to pay it, I just never find the time to get over there….  They don’t seem to have many/any Catholic books.  Perhaps if they did, I would go more frequently.  Just a thought.)

Striking Fear into my Heart

Today has been quite a day.  I had testing at University of Michigan Hospital.  As part of my testing, I had to be NPO for 12 hours, then have a blood draw.  Okay.  Well, I can’t start my NPO period after Mass, because then I would have to have my blood draw after 7 pm, and they are closed.  So….  I had to *not* receive the Eucharist at Mass, so that I would be properly NPO from dinner until my blood draw the next morning.

I don’t know about you guys, but going up and *not* receiving the Eucharist was one of the scariest things to me.  I did go up for a blessing.  Walking back, my heart began pounding, and I just wanted to run back into line.  Am I silly?  Or do you guys do this too?

Happily, since I felt that that was the scariest thing I could face — I was not worried about the rest of the day.  There was sickness, pain, and that all-too-often-present feeling that you are going to pass out, but it was a good day (from an end-of-the-day perspective).

How cool is *this*?!?:

Tonight, when I got home, as I was eating my Kashi (yeah, I know — dinner of champs, right?), I was grabbing at the closest printed material to me, since I can’t eat a meal without reading something unless I have company (Thanks, Mom!).  I found this prayer, and it was just perfect!

Act of Spiritual Communion
My Jesus, I believe that You are present in the Most Holy Sacrament.  I love You above all things, and I desire to receive You into my soul.  Since I cannot at this moment receive You sacramentally, come at least spiritually into my heart.  I embrace You as if You were already there and unite myself wholly to You.  Never permit me to be separated from You. Amen.

Yes! It’s Pink! Deal with it!

What’s pink?  My colored pencil color for the last section of readings in Bible study.  According to Jeff Cavins, this period (The Church) is supposed to be white, to represent the spotless bride of Christ. 

Have you ever tried to highlight with white colored pencil?  Doesn’t work too well.  So I had to pick another color.  I picked pink.  Why pink?  No, not because I am a girly-girl, because, if you know me, you know that that is far from the truth.  First, I was looking for a color visually different from the other colors I have used thus far in my Bible.  Second, pink (rose, for those of you who cringe just at the word….) is the color of the robes that are allowed to be worn on Gaudete Sunday in Advent and Laetare Sunday in Lent.  “Gaudete” meaning, roughly, “rejoicing.”  And to designate the period of “The Church,” being Acts and everything following it, what better color to represent it?  Shouldn’t we be rejoicing all the time after the Resurrection?  (And, yes, there’s that period between the Resurrection and Pentecost, but according to the Bible study program, that is categorized under “Messianic Fulfillment,” and the apostles were still scared and hiding, until they were filled with the Holy Spirit — so I think they were really rejoicing after Pentecost….)  🙂

Wai Too Catholic

1.  Today at Mass, as usual, during the consecration of the gifts, I was watching them.  (As if I’m going to *see* them change into the Body and Blood — I know, I’m silly, but I still think it’s fascinating.)  As I’m watching, I was thinking back to (here’s where I’m not sure exactly where I read it) when they say that if you look at the face of God directly, you will die, and how everyone was afraid of that.

Why were they afraid?  And why would God have them die?

My unofficial hypothesis that I thought of:
a.  ‘Seeing the face of God’ may = ‘knowing God’ — as in truly knowing, not knowing about.
b.  ‘Dying’ = ‘going home to God’
Thus,
c.  If you ‘see God,’ all of Him, and truly know Him, then what attachment would you have to this world?

None.

So, then, it makes sense that you might detach from everything here, and just go right home to Him in heaven.  Isn’t that the point of everything?  To go home?  Then, ‘dying’ after ‘seeing the face of God’ isn’t some bad thing, but actually something that we might want, or should want.

Just in case anyone wanted to know what I think about during Mass….  🙂

2.  This one got me odd looks from my coworker.  I just came into the church last year, baptized and everything, and have really fallen in love.  So, at work, they are coming to think that I am some type of freakish uber-Catholic.  And I’m okay with that.  I don’t mind being full of zeal for the right things.  Even if they think that I’m odd.  I do tend to get carried away with things — I know this.

So, what got me the odd looks was my next Big Idea.  (Everybody say, “Uh, oh.  What now?)  I have this clothesline in my backyard that my dad built a while back.  Well, one of the poles fell down and it’s been years since it was actually used as a clothesline.  So the only thing remaining in my backyard is a …  you got it … large wooden cross.

What are you going to do, Jenn?  Again at Mass, earlier in the week, I got this idea:  I am going to ‘dress’ my cross for Lent.  I am going to go to the fabric store and get a length of purple fabric and drape it like the crucifix is draped in the chapel.

So, am I completely nuts, or is this a good idea?

PAs Crack Me Up

Disembodied voice:  “Jennnnnn….  What up?”

Jenn to Bill:  “Learning about Luke today.”

Bill:  “Earning your loot today?”

Jenn:  “Ha!  I earn my loot every day!  No, ‘learning about Luke today’.  The Gospel of Luke.  About the kingdom and how to pray.”

Bill:  “Hail Mary!”

Cara:  “Amen!”

Prayer Request/In Memoriam

Today, on the way in to work, one of my coworkers was noting a particularly icy patch.  She said that at least 8 people were off in the ditch.  One guy was out of his car, trying to push himself out.  As she watched, someone slid off the road and ran directly into the man.  She tried to stop to help him, but her car was starting to slide.  She did note that 3 other cars were able to stop to offer assistance.  Please pray for this man.  And for all the travelers out there in this weather. 

Update:  There is a news article about the weather which mentions this accident.

This story is particularly striking for me.  Soon after I left enlisted service to go to U of M, I got a call over spring break from one of my best friends.  She was stationed on the Ike, an aircraft carrier.  Also on the carrier was a mutual friend of ours, René, with whom we went to Nuke school with in Florida.  René had just returned from a 6 month deployment and was on his way to the airport to fly back to Texas to spend his leave visiting with his family.  He usually asks [my friend who called] for a ride, but on this day, he caught a ride with someone else.  On the way, they got a flat tire and pulled off into the breakdown lane.  René, being the sweet person he is, went around back to change the tire.  I think it was raining, although now, I am not certain if that is a correct memory.  A girl ran off the road and hit René, pinning him between the two cars bumpers.  He was taken to the hospital, where they had to amputate both of his legs.  He died of shock that evening.

I pray that you are home with God.  We love you, Néné.